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MENTAL MATURITY

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Let’s look at the most basic example, no matter how sensible or impactful your post may be on Facebook, there are people who will never read, like, comment or share it; not because it didn’t make sense, but because they don’t like you as a person. They don’t like you, so they can’t support you or concede that you have something to offer. In counselling, I’ve heard a number of ladies complain about promiscuous lecturers thus, “He asked me out and I refused, and I because of that I failed his course.” While I concede that many of such ladies are actually being preyed upon, I disagree that the subsequent failure is always because they are being victimized for not agreeing to a sexual affair with the lecturer. This is what happens; most ladies are actually disappointed at such advances, and subsequently filled with indignation towards that particular lecturer for the attempted sexual exploitation. In that angst, they lose the psychological disposition needed to effectively liste

Ekenna natures Limited ( Health Demystified)

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The greatest gift you can give to your family and society is a healthy you. Medicine  is simply a manifest human expression  of God's love for man. Healing is a matter of time, but it is sometimes also a matter of opportunity. The most successful persons are people who take advantage of opportunities with little or no scepticism. That opportunity is here and now. Take advantage of it. About us Ekenna Natures Limited is an innovative  health organization, which is focused on understanding and treating various diseases, which have caused havocs in the world today . This reputable health organization has received recommendations from well-respected  personalities and institutions  such as Nigeria Natural Medicine  Development  Agency (NNMDA ), Federal Ministry of science and Technology Lagos, University  of Nigeria Nsukka, University of Abuja, and Nnamdi Azikiwe university Awka. Ekenna Nature’s first line herbal formulation has been validated in a research work  conduct

THREE MEETINGS OF LIFE AND YOU

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While on earth, and in pursuit of meaning and success, every man or woman is destined to meet three persons, and vice versa; YOUR EQUALS : these are people who are at the same or almost the same level with you. They are mostly useful as companions and confidants. You need each other. You call them FRIENDS. YOUR DESTINY HELPERS : these are people who are ahead of you spiritually, politically, financially or otherwise. You look up to them for counsel, connection or support. A contact with them, their words or write-ups can narrow the distance between you and your destination. They may not need you, but you definitely need them .You call them MENTOR or BOSS. YOUR DESTINY DEPENDENTS : these are those you are meant to be an answer to their own problems. They need you as their own mentor, model or helper. If they don’t meet you at your best, their own lives may end up in shambles. You may not need them, but they definite

WHY WE GET INTO TROUBLE

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Note: 1. This is why many ladies fall cheap, and sometimes into trouble. 2. It's why most persons become criminals. 3. It's why most persons compromise. 4. It's why many Africans die in the Libyan coast in an attempt to cross into Europe. Some years ago, during the 'Blackberry' era, I watched a young girl suffer what is arguably the most embarrassing type of sexual abuse. She was stripped naked in the streets of Emene (Enugu state). Every man who cared to had the leverage to thrust his fingers into her vagina for as long as he wanted, and play with her breasts regardless of the technique chosen. I watched her cry in pain and utter embarrassment. I couldn't deal with the pain of watching that on social media, and sincerely, I was tormented by it's memory. Rumours were that she committed suicide afterwards. All for what? Because she stole a blackberry phone at 'Fine Brothers'. She had a Nokia phone, and she could make calls, text and 2go with

BECOMING YOUR OWN CHEERLEADER

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One of the most fascinating and unique feature of American sporting teams (especially basketball) is the presence of cheerleaders. Cheerleaders are part of the team, and they are usually a group of cute sexy ladies in skimpy clothing. Arguably, the best teams have the best (most attractive and artistic) cheerleaders. A cheerleader has three major responsibilities; • To have an irrevocable belief in the ability and success of the players. • To perform (usually in songs and acrobatics) before a match to keep the players in high Spirit. • To cheer up and encourage them all through the match regardless of whether they are loosing or winning.  Also, team managers are deliberate about selecting attractive ladies as cheerleaders so that the boys will have an incentive to want to impress someone. Its annoying, but a man can be at his best just trying to impress a lady. Beyond sports, everyone who must become successful in life needs cheerleaders (that's why stars need fans)