THREE THINGS EVERY LADY IS ATTRACTED TO

Somehow I feel I'm about to stir trouble. There seems to be an increase in the number of frustrated young men, and a consequent erroneous conclusion that what most ladies are attracted to is the size of a man's pocket. I don't think the trending 'Yahoo' or 'Yahoo plus’ is unconnected with the need to make more money to impress more ladies. Story for another day shha, I just want to help fellow brothers' with some attraction secrets;

1. VISION: 

You probably don't know but discussions are the best way to access a person's worth, and ladies are experts at that. Ladies are attracted to vision. If a lady is inspired listening to or knowing about you, and can see your glorious future just by listening to you, she can ignore your bank account for the now and follow you.

2. POWER: 

Women are generally attracted to power. Different women however have their preferences of power. To them, power is inextricably tied to masculinity. To attract one, you must possess any of the following powers.

·         Economic Power: everyone (male and female) needs economic security. The need for economic security and the ostentatious nature of women makes rich men more attractive. It's not materialism-even the Bible called money a defense. So bro, your poverty is not her fault, don't give up until you get rich.

·         Intellectual Power: in tertiary institutions for instance, the most intelligent of men, have access to the finest of ladies, and without struggle too. Subconsciously, most ladies want men who are intellectually ahead of them. You might have a broke pocket but as long as your brain is wealthy, they will rush you lol. So bros, take intellectual development as a project.

·         Physical Power: it's about your physical appearance. Some prefer handsome, some prefer macho with six packs, others prefer neat and fashionable men, hehe. If you resemble Obasanjo, you might want to consider gyming or changing your appearance. However, if all you have to offer to a lady is 'fine boy' then your position is shaky!

·         Political Power: you would think Obasanjo and Bola Tinibu are ugly until they give you a list of ladies who are Crushing on them. Like bees are attracted to honey, ladies are attracted to men of influence. It gives them bragging rights amongst their peers. 2019 is near, better go and buy form, even if it's for local government councilor, hehe.

·         Social Power: even boring ladies don't like boredom. Acquiring effective social and communicative skills makes you attractive. That's why they love public speakers and people leading at different capacities. If you're also funny, it's an added advantage. Introverted or not, ladies love communication (listening and being listened to) and if you can do that effectively, you will be close enough to…; I meant find a wife.

·         Spiritual Power: errrhm... The anointing of God attracts the opposite sex. Attention from the opposite sex is a normal cross that anointed men must carry. If you are powerful enough to give her solutions to spiritual challenges, then just know that you are so handsome. So if you don't have any other power, better go and fast and collect anointing.

Summarily, women need to feel safe and you need power for that-that’s why some of them date gangstars. If you're a man, and you have every power mentioned above, you're officially in trouble, "na dem dey rush you."

3. LOVE & RESPECT: 

Ever wondered why the Bible's instruction to Husbands' is to love their wife? It’s simple, love is a woman's weakness (because it produces submission) and strength (because loving her brings out the best in her). If you can show a woman genuine love and respect for her person, it's only a matter of time before she follows, even if your face is 'chimpanzeec' in nature.

Finally brethren; if you deploy vision, power and love, and you still can't get a lady to say "Yes I do", better go and become a monk😣. Celibacy is your destiny 😂.

© Ezeme Kingsley C.

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